When I was young, I felt unlovable and not good enough, and I still fight those tendencies. My father was narcissistic, bipolar, and an alcoholic. My parent’s relationship was unhealthy. That’s what I saw when I was a kid. As I ventured out into the dating world, needless to say, it DID NOT GO WELL. I was naive and a hot-mess.
- Engaged twice in my late 20’s and early 30’s, and never married.
- Serial dated for a several years.
- In 2010, I attracted a sociopath, narcissistic, sex-addict who cheated on me with several women.
After that I said, “ENOUGH.” I got determine to learn a new way. I hated the typical clichés, myth’s and rules. They caused more confusion than help. I studied and became an expert in being a great dater, gender dynamics, flirting, men, myself, love and healthy relationships. I healed my heart and became lovable from the inside out.
I met my husband at the end of 2011 and spent seven really good years together. I am the person I am today because of his love and support. Recently, we sat down and did one of my prominent exercises – The Fulfillment List 2.0, and both realized we are not the fulfilling partners for each other going forward. It was hard to admit. Back then, I had a vague list, he had no list. As a result of this very eye-opening yet painful work, we mutually decided to separate. As of October 2019, we are divorced and I am single. We are in a good place and kind to one another. We care about each other enough to let each other go. I am committed to everyone being fulfilled, lovable and in a healthy relationship when they are ready.
During my 8 years as a Coach, I’m proud to say, I have an 86% success rate of people attracting the love of their life. My work has been the featured speaker on TV Shows, Radio Shows, luncheons, and Meet-Ups, etc.
I have the best job in the world as a Dating and Love Life Coach, Speaker and Author of Loveable: 21 Practices for Being in a Loving & Fulfilling Relationship, endorsed by John Gray PhD, Bestselling Author of Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus. In early 2014, I co-authored the International Bestselling book, Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life.
My passion in life is to support professional, ambitious and self-reflective singles over 40. Together, we uncover what is in the way from YOU being in a successful relationship. You are then able to build a mutually satisfying relationship!